"Notes" of An Elder

Your mind is either your best friend or your worst enemy.

Nothing in life is of any value unless it is shared with others.

"Notes" of An Elder is a depository of pertinent information, knowledge and wisdom. Available weekly will be an elder's "thinking menu" for your use. Enjoy this bounty.

  • The first step to improving oneself is self-awareness.

  • "A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out." ― Walter Winchell

  • Tomorrow is a new day that needs your full attention and focus.

  • Success without fulfillment is a failure.

  • Life is a never ending series of problems.

  • Comparing yourself to others is a surefire way to feel inadequate and stressed.

  • Remember that you cannot pour from an empty cup.

  • You cannot control what others think. So why spend your time and energy worrying about it?

  • The need to please others equals the need to be liked and accepted.

  • Your phone is not your boss.

5 Dysfunctions of a Team

  1. Inattention to team results.

  2. Lack of accountability.

  3. Lack of commitment.

  4. Fear of conflict.

  5. Absence of trust.

  • Clutter is anything that doesn't bring you joy.

  • Optimism in the face of adversity gives you the strength to take on challenges.

  • Honesty saves lives. Lies destroy lives.

  • If size matters, elephants would be king of the jungle.

  • Your mind is either your best friend or your worse enemy.

  • Greatness: To consistently perform and achieve at the highest of levels.

  • Understanding why you make a mistake is the first step to preventing it from happening again.

  • "It takes many good deeds to build a good reputation, and only one bad one to lose it." ― Benjamin Franklin

  • There is no more important work than to listen from our hearts.

  • Look at failure as your friend, not your enemy.

  • Sacrifice luxury today to enjoy freedom tomorrow.

Magic Question

How can I become someone worth following?