"Notes" of An Elder

To be a better leader and to lead a better life, you need to stop worrying about who you are not and start benefiting from who you are.

February 03, 2023

Nothing in life is of any value unless it is shared with others.

"Notes" of An Elder is a depository of pertinent information, knowledge and wisdom. Available weekly will be an elder's "thinking menu" for your use. Enjoy this bounty.

  • The deepest craving in human nature is the craving to be appreciated.

  • “Spectacular failure is the secret ingredient to your ultimate success.” ― Leslie Odom Jr.

  • Many of us know more about our favorite vacation spots, sports teams, or running shoes than we do about ourselves.

  • Your attitude defines your whole life, quite literally.

  • To be a better leader and to lead a better life, you need to stop worrying about who you are not and start benefiting from who you are.

  • Become the best version of yourself for yourself.

  • If you want to get somewhere ― first figure out where you want to go and then figure out how to get there.

Personal Identity

  • Skills

  • Knowledge

  • Experiences

  • Perspectives

  • Everybody talks about change, but many want others to change and not change themselves.

  • Result translates from attitude and behaviors, not the other way around.

  • Making money for someone else is a dying dream.

  • Success leaves clues if you know where to look.

  • “A clever person solves a problem; a wise person avoids it.” ― Albert Einstein

  • Common sense, street smarts, and experience can help the wise person avoid problems rather than solving them.

  • We are only in control of our thoughts, actions, and feelings.

Magic Question

Who can use my help?