"Notes" of An Elder

You make a person feel valued, acknowledged, and important when you listen.

January 07, 2022

Nothing in life is of any value unless it is shared with others.

"Notes" of An Elder is a depository of pertinent information, knowledge and wisdom. Available weekly will be an elder's "thinking menu" for your use. Enjoy this bounty.

  • As much as possible, isolate yourself and others from chronic whiners, complainers and troublemakers.

  • Don't miss opportunities to show that you care.

  • Sometimes, feelings are the result of action. Other times, feelings are the cause for action.

  • Be a first responder — reach people in need as quickly as possible. Offer your support and love.

  • Solve problems before others know they exist.

  • Never critique the person. Critique the idea.

  • Failure is the best opportunity to learn. We should never waste a good mistake.

Self-Manage

  • Ego

  • Mind

  • Body

  • Emotions

  • Behavior

  • Winning is about getting better every day.

  • Excel at not knowing but knowing how to learn.

  • Communication: a coordinated effort between speaker and listener.

  • All meetings must have listeners.

  • You make a person feel valued, acknowledged, and important when you listen.

  • Healing the universe is an inside job.

Magic Question

What motivates you?