Planes, Trains, and Automobiles: Timeless Lessons for Thanksgiving

The day before Thanksgiving is the busiest travel day in America. Families come together to celebrate the holiday, using every mode of transportation—planes, trains, and automobiles.

In 1987, filmmaker John Hughes brought this chaotic yet heartfelt scenario to life with the classic comedy Planes, Trains, and Automobiles. The movie stars Steve Martin as Neal Page, a high-strung businessman desperate to get home for Thanksgiving, and John Candy as Del Griffith, a jovial yet exasperating shower curtain ring salesman.

The story unfolds as Neal and Del navigate a series of travel misadventures, including flight cancellations and breakdowns. Their contrasting personalities collide repeatedly, yet they form an unlikely bond, learning valuable lessons about kindness, friendship, and the true meaning of the holiday season.

More than three decades after its release, Planes, Trains, and Automobiles remains a beloved holiday tradition for many. The film’s enduring appeal lies in its exploration of themes that are as relevant today as they were in 1987:

• The Importance of Human Connection
  The movie emphasizes the value of connecting with others, particularly during tough times. Neal and Del begin as strangers, but through their shared struggles, they develop a genuine friendship that enriches both their lives.

• Patience and Frustration
  The relentless travel challenges Neal and Del face—delays, discomforts, and disasters—capture the universal frustrations of holiday travel. The film humorously yet poignantly shows how patience is tested and how resilience can prevail.

• Empathy and Kindness
  Despite his quirks, Del demonstrates generosity and compassion. The story highlights the power of understanding and kindness, especially when circumstances are less than ideal.

• Family and the Holiday Spirit
  At its heart, the film is about Neal’s determination to return home for Thanksgiving, reminding viewers of the central role family and gratitude play in the holiday season.

The film is filled with moments of humor and wisdom, including these standout lines that capture the essence of Thanksgiving:

• "It's not what you're driving. It's how you're driving it."
  A reminder that attitude can make all the difference, even in tough situations.

• "I’m not a halo guy."
  A humorous reflection on human imperfections and individuality.

• "We’ll just have to get creative."
  A testament to adaptability and making the best of a challenging situation.

As we gather with loved ones this Thanksgiving and holiday season, Planes, Trains, and Automobiles reminds us of the timeless importance of connection, empathy, and joy.

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